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How To Tell If A Shy Guy Likes You

November 19th, 2012 No comments

How To Tell If A Shy Guy Likes You: The Obvious Signs

By : Max Kalalo

how to tell if a shy guy likes you

how to tell if a shy guy likes you

Have you ever wondered how to tell if a shy guy likes you? You probably like this guy since he seems so sweet, so smart, and so gentleman-like, but the huge problem is that he’s so shy. You don’t know whether he likes you or he is just being comfortable having you as his friend. Do you have to back off? Do you have to leave him? Or just to tell him how to stop being shy ? Don’t lose hope just yet because there are actually ways to know whether he has feelings for you.

The Guy Concept

You are probably growing up with the idea that the guy is also the one that pursue the girls. They are the aggressive ones and the girls should wait for any signs that he is interested in you. But the main problem with shy guy is that their signs are never been obvious! You find him stare at you from afar, but he suddenly look away when you catch him. Staring, unfortunately, isn’t the only way to know whether he likes you. Of course you can’t push or force him to say that he likes you, but if you are being thorough and careful, you can always spot the signs.

The Signs

Well, for some of shy guys ,  how to get over shyness is not easy. Just being observant will help you a lot in finding out whether he likes you or not. He may not say those words, but you can always tell from these signs.

  • Body language doesn’t lie. If he likes sitting or standing close to you and seem to be very comfortable around you, that’s the sign. Try to touch his arm lightly. If he seems to pull away quickly or seems to be electrocuted, don’t have the wrong ideas or being insulted. Just a small touch from you can cause such huge reaction. If he also blushes, that’s the most obvious sign.
  • The soft and warm look. A guy that likes you will spend his time staring at you when he thinks you aren’t watching. Try to catch him in the act once in a while and he will be surprised and look away – he may also blush. But don’t lose hope; he will stare at you again when he thinks you don’t know and aren’t looking. Catch him again and prove your guts.
  • Simplest touches are meaningful. He likes staying close to you, sometimes touch your arm lightly. If your feet are brushing accidentally together, he doesn’t remove it right away. He likes being close to you, but he doesn’t know how to do that, so he keeps small contact to keep you near.
  • He knows your favorite things. He shows interest in you; want to know your favorite songs, movies, or activities. Sometimes you and he may meet by coincidence in your favorite music store. Don’t be surprised; he wants to meet you and set up the ‘coincidence’ meeting.

Having such attention from shy guys will certainly sweet and memorable, because they tend to show their feeling with actions; not with words only. You just have to be observant and pay attention to the smallest details to really find out how to tell if a shy guy likes you.

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